This weekend I got to meet a bunch of new friends: my fiancĂ©’s coworkers wives. It’s interesting because in my previous post
I mentioned how nothing has really changed since the 1950’s and I think a lot
of that is because even though women are now educated there are still the same
roles that need to be taken on in marriage.
I’m talking about raising the kids.
When you have a child who is so little and helpless you can’t
imagine someone else raising it, am I right?!?!? That means there has to be a decision;
someone is staying home for a few years.
It naturally turns to women because men still have a greater earning
potential today just like they did in the past.
In the few cases where I see men staying at home it’s because they have
married a successful woman who is making significantly more than them.
My new friends are no exception. All of them had babies for different reasons:
they were getting to old and it’s now or never, accidents, trapping a man into
marriage, or wanting to start a family.
Whatever the reason they all stay at home and a few of them reminded
their men repeatedly what they have given up for them…..awkward!
This brings me to the main point of why I am so set on
owning investment property. I want to
stay at home and raise a quiver full of kids.
I’m looking forward to it. But I
also am reminded that I need to know that I am contributing financially to the
piggy bank. In no way am I leaving the responsibility
of being the breadwinner or raising the kids on one person in this
marriage. I just hope someday I remember
to reread this post and remind myself when I feel fat, pregnant and unhappy at
homeJ